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👥 Member Moderation

Moderation and Safety Guide for MentalHappy Support Group Leaders

Your Role as a Leader

Your role is to educate, motivate, and guide your group while fostering a safe and respectful environment. MentalHappy’s support team handles serious safety issues, removals, and escalations so you can focus on your group’s purpose.

🔗 For confidentiality and content protection rules, see the Privacy & Safety Guide.

Quick Response: Handling Disruptions

  1. Step 1: Light Reminder
    Stay calm and remind the group of guidelines.
    “Let’s make sure everyone gets a chance to share.”
  2. Step 2: Redirect
    Politely guide back to topic.
    “Let’s stay on today’s topic so this stays helpful for everyone.”
  3. Step 3: Pause if Needed
    Take a moment, reset tone, restate ground rules.

When to Escalate to MentalHappy

Immediately flag or contact Support if someone is:

  • Using hurtful, offensive, or discriminatory language
  • Harassing, bullying, or threatening others
  • Sharing private member details outside the group
  • Showing signs of crisis, self-harm, or suicidal thoughts

👉 Use the in-app Report/Flag feature or message Support via in-app chat.

Leader Boundaries

  • You do not need to handle removals — Support manages this.
  • Your focus: keeping sessions on-topic, warm, and inclusive.
  • Reinforce guidelines consistently so members know expectations.

Quick Reference Table

Issue What You Do What MentalHappy Does
Member is chatty/off-topic Gentle reminder, redirect
Member repeats after reminder Redirect + reset tone
Harassment, threats, offensive language Flag/report Contact participant, remove if needed
Crisis or self-harm signs Escalate immediately Follow-up + safety resources
Privacy violation Report Enforce confidentiality, remove if needed

Moderator Script Examples

Reminder (light):
“Let’s give everyone space to share.”
“One person at a time helps us listen better.”
Redirect (firm but kind):
“That’s an important point, but let’s circle back to today’s topic.”
Confidentiality:
“Remember, what’s shared here stays here.”
De-escalation:
“I hear some strong feelings — let’s pause to reset.”
Boundary-setting:
“That question is outside our scope. Please reach out privately or we can flag it for support.”
Your Focus: Keep discussions safe, respectful, and purposeful. Lean on MentalHappy Support for enforcement — you don’t have to manage difficult members alone.